sponsor) who provides monthly financial support from abroad. But there’s another famous saying in Pattaya’s bar scene: “It may be easy to get a girl out of a bar but impossible to get the bar out of the girl.” In many cases of love affairs between and former bar girls, this is unfortunately all too true – and a permanent source of interpersonal problems.
Many “normal” Thai women may either shy away from getting chatted up by or may simply not be interested in dating Westerners – also due to social prejudice.
Unless you can speak some Thai – a skill which can surely help “melt the ice” in the beginning – the language barrier is often another obstacle when trying to establish contact with a Thai lady in an everyday situation, for example, in a shopping mall or club.
Why then are looking for a marriage with foreign men? On the contrary this demonstrates their seriousness and real wish to find husband.
Relationships can reach a point when suddenly you realize you have nothing to talk about. You'll have some light-hearted fun, and may even get to know things about him you never knew (or wish you never knew). Well, that list should easily help you get through at least a few evenings of nothing-to-do-ness.